Eli Ashpence brings us her brand of wisdom. You can find Eli at her blog. Her book Genocide to Genesis is available on Smashwords: Eighty years after World War Three, the immortal Val is one of the few who lives long enough to see the modern world of science crumble into a medieval world of magic. Thank you for sharing your lessons with us, Eli.
When I
really get down to it, there's only four lessons I'd like to impart to other
people. Yes, only four our of the four
dozen.
1. You are your own worst enemy.
This was
the hardest lesson for me. No matter how
much I was told I had talent, I simply couldn't believe it. I had a little too much humility. Dreaming came easy, but no one ever taught me
how to chase my dreams. In high school,
when everyone was deciding their career paths, 'author' wasn't an option. It wasn't realistic. It wasn't done.
Once I
learned how to get out of my own way, things became incredibly clear. Suddenly, I knew what I wanted out of my
life. I had a goal and a passion. I finally understood what everyone meant when
they said, "Do what you love."
I might
not be a best-selling author yet....
Yet.
Oh, how
wonderful that word can be! I might have
to keep my day job and my family might drive me to distraction, but I'm a
writer. I learned to accept it.
In the
beginning, it was easy for me to write drivel.
Hundreds, even thousands, of scenes came to mind so easily, equaling
millions of words. I didn't care what
message I was sending. I was satisfied
simply by shipping characters and settings.
It's a
few years down the line and I'm running out of drivel. Writing has become work and, although it's
still enjoyable, it takes more energy.
More importantly, I've been lucky enough to gather fans... impressionable
fans.... fans that take every word to heart.
What do
I want to say? As I transition from
hobby writing to professional sell-your-words writing, this weighs on me even
more. When I consider how much my
readership could potentially grow with one viral novel, I have to think of the
potential impact I could cause.
"If
I could change anything in the world, I'd change..."
This is
exactly why they say the pen is mightier than the sword. (Too cliche?)
Then how
about this: I'm not saying every story
has to have a point other than enjoyment.
I AM saying that all good stories have readers that look beneath the
surface of the story, so we should keep it real.
3. Body... and Time
Writing
takes a toll on the body. For me, it
happened quickly as I tried to make up for lost time with enthusiasm. Now, I could be moaning and crying and making
a big deal about writing stories with a hunt and peck style of typing. I could talk about the dangers of carpal
tunnel and curse the heavens.
I won't.
What I
will say is, "I've learned to spend my time more wisely." We all write, hoping to hit upon that one
masterpiece that will let our star rise in the industry. We want to be heard and seen, known and
loved.
For
many, this is like creating a series of lottery tickets and hoping one will
strike the right numbers (or notes).
However, when I think of all I've written to date, and all the stories
I've trunked, and all the hours I've put into my craft, I have to wonder what
would have happened if I'd put all that energy into a single worthwhile
novel. Why, I'd have a series of fifty
books!
More to
the point, we as human beings only have a short time on this planet. We all hope to spend fifty, eighty, even a
hundred years honing our craft.
Unfortunately, we could also get hit by a car, fall into a sinkhole, or
freeze in a freak snowstorm. Hell, we
might even die of old age, but that doesn't change the lesson I've learned.
We have
a limited amount of life, so aim to write something eternal.
4. Opinions aren't Edicts
Writers
often trade opinions on writing and we wrap ourselves in a knot, saying,
"This is right, that is wrong. Only
break the rules after you've followed them."
Bah,
humbug.
Readers
often become critics and critics are quick to point out flaws.
Feh.
Your
friends laugh, your family looks the other way, and your dog doesn't respect
you.
Hmph.
EVERYONE
has an opinion, but all the talk and all the self-important prattle will only
teach you one thing. And, no, it's not
that only your opinion matters, because even you can be wrong.
Lesson
four: If your words have soul, nothing
else matters.
Awesome post! I loved where you said if you out all your work into one piece, you'd have a 50 book series. I think that's important. Writing drivel is crucial to improving, but why not make that drivel helpful instead of useless? Thank you!
ReplyDeleteI relate to #2 especially. Huge difference between writing for fun and writing to share on a professional level. Huge.
ReplyDelete#1 - oh-so-me. Although it is kind of hilarious when I shove myself to the floor, yelling, "Would you please shut off the self doubts! I have a book to write!" Okay, so only the cat thinks it's funny...
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